by Jhuwen Balite
On my interview article, I’ve asked
a lady’s opinion about a bro. Since our blog cares for one’s privacy, her real
name will be hidden as well as her age and social status (haha). Here’s my
conversation with her…
Bronicles:how can you define a bro?
Interviewee: anung bro? haha joke, teka isip ako….
matured man ?
Bronicles: haha, ganun... panu bang masasabi na
matured na ang isang bro?
Interviewee: if he can control his bad feelings
towards othrs? hindi ko sure ehh.. if he can handle situations?
hahaha
seryoso na nga tawa ko ng tawa lang e
Bronicles: so your saying na immature yung isang
bro na short tempered at hindi kayang mag handle ng situations? bket nmn..
Interviewee: oo kasi mga isip bata lang naman yung
mga pikon its better to be silent na lang mas deadly un…
Bronicles: ah, mukang about relationship yan ah..
Interviewee: ndi naman general un kahit boys to
boys bromance hehe
Bronicles: hahahah.. in terms of having a
relationship, sino sa plgay mo ang mas okay mag handle, a bro or a girl?
Interviewee: ung mas matured wala kasi sa gender e
hehehe pero both of them should work out..
others says girls daw pero d ako naniniwala..
Bronicles: ah tama..
Bronicles: may mga tips kba pra maging matured ang
isang bro?
Interviewee: hmm along the way naman yan, through
experience siguro, through learning din
ang korni naman kung magbabasa alaki ng pocket
books diba? haha kasi dun madami matutunan sa relationship
Bronicles: eh what about the characteristics na
dpat magkaroon ang isang bro pra magustuhan sya ng girl?
Interviewee: iba iba kasi ang taste ng babae
hahaha kaya just be yourself..
Bronicles: ah, eh what if yung
"yourself" eh hindi okay
for example, badboy
Interviewee: hmmm… before entering into a
relationship its important to consider your self first…
how can you love another if you dont know how to
do it to your self…
you cannot give anything if you yourself is still
incomplete…
its not good that you rely yourself to others para
maging kumpleto ka
walang ibang gagawa dapat nun kundi sarili mo kasi
makakasakit ka lang..
haha ang drama ko.
Bronicles: d nmn msyado,, hehe.. prang may pinag
huhugutan lang..
Interviewee: hahaha, for seroius matters yan ah
Bronicles: so your saying na kahit na ano pa man
yung ugali o characteristics ng isang bro.. he should not change it for a girl?
Interviewee: hndi sa ganun kasi yan ung pagbabago
nila naging inspiration para sa
isang tao, pero mali pa rin na un lang ung dahilan
kaya sila nagbago eh pano kung hindi naging ok diba? edi balik naman sa dati..
ang labas nyan, wag gawin para sa iba kundi para
sa sarili.. hehe
Bronicles: tama.. kasi many bros nowadays ang
binabago yung sarili pra sa girl na gusto nila, hiding the fact na ayaw nmn
tlga nilang maging ganon..
Interviewee: oo, saka magbabago din sila kung
ginawa nila un para sa ibang tao, i mean magbabago na babalik sa dati.
Bronicles: eh what if kya gngwa ng bros yun pra
mpsya yung girl, na yung pagbabago na gngwa ng isang bro pra sa girl yung nag
papasya sa girl, ano yung gagawin ng isang bro?
Interviewee: wait... pag isipan ko effort kasi yan
eh.. nkakatuwa din yan sa part ng babae kung badboy sya dati at nagbago para
mapasaya ung babae? Hmmm babae na gf nya na? or babae na liligawan nya?
Bronicles: babae na gf nya
Interviewee: dapat gawin nya panindigan nya ung
pagbabago na ginawa nya yung as in hanggang dulo kasi dapat ung gf on the first
place tanggap kung cnu sya tlga maaring baguhin sya in form but not the whole
substance ung may matitira pa din sa pagkatao nya. (nung bro )
Bronicles: ah... e2 last question na, how can i
bro, retain a good relationship with a girl? siguro sa girlfriend tayo mag
focus.
Interviewee: be a man enough
man enough not to hurt your girl
man enoough to protect her
man enough to be faithful
man enough to make her feel beatiful and special
Bronicles: ah.. cge we will put that in our
notes.. haha.. slmat sa pag participate... and bilang token of appreciation,
ihahanap ka ng thebronicles ng bro for you... haha
Interviewee: hahaha may ganun
Bronicles: well,, just contact us kung kaylangan
mo na.. haha ipapa deliver nlng naming.
As you can read on my interview
with her, our interviewee has leaded the conversation about Bros on
relationship. She tells us that its pays to be more mature for a Bro to handle
a serious relationship with a girl. She also said that (in most cases) Bros
should not change their attitude for the girl that he loves, especially if he’s
not happy about it. Our interviewee also said that maturity will come to the
Bros along the way, as they journey on their life. As we converse up to the
end, there is one thing that catches my attention, when our interviewee answers
my last question with this phrase:
Be a man enough
Man enough not to hurt your girl
Man enoough to protect her
Man enough to be faithful
Man enough to make her feel beatiful and special
If by any
chances you have read this answer above, which is of course, you will because
you will read the whole conversation, definitely. The Bronicles would like to
clear and specify that, a Bro is not that much different from being a Man. We contain same
characteristics as they were. The only thing that varies us (the Bros) to them
(the Man) is that, we’re cooler and more awesome than them.
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