After Break-up Management

by Fil-maur Louis Nacion

Love is the most profound emotion known to human beings. For most people, romantic relationships are the most meaningful element in their lives. But the ability to have a healthy and loving relationship is not inborn. And in reality it really “ends”. When that time comes, what are you suppose to do bro? Cry, kill yourself or move on?

Just when you thought that the person on your wallpaper is just “wallpaper”, and you realize that as of last night you are now back to saying the words, “Table for one, please”, you’re single. But wait, before you go throwing your cell phone out of the window or doing something that you will soon regret, remember that there are ways to handle things properly. And here it goes dude.

First of all let’s establish one key point here, no matter how cheesy it sounds, you will fall in love again, TRUST me. I don’t care if your previous girlfriend was in FHM’s 100 sexiest women or the cover of Playboy magazine, you will go on.

First, I know, you thought you relationship would last forever and she said she had never met someone like you before. And I know, you made plans for next summer already. And basically, all was happiness until the lethal words “It’s not working out” were said and your heart dropped ten floors below or even fifteen.

Once you find out the relationship is over, the proper thing to do is say goodbye and be on your way. Impossible? Why should I do this? One, do you really want to convince them not to abandon you? No! They have already made up their mind. And two, there are many fish in the sea, go and get one.

Second, don’t sit around and wait, assuming they are coming back. I don’t want to say that people can’t break up and get back together, I don’t! But you have to set your mind that this part of your life is just another closed chapter in your long romantic history. I’m saying this because you can’t always assume that time will make someone change. And its quiet impossible to even try to change someone just for your own gain, right?

Lastly, the best medicine to being dumped is to bounce back with vengeance, with an even better you. I know we’re awesome but everyone can still improve, everyone can make themselves a better person when faced with something tragic in their lives. Sometimes a life-changing event is a slap on the back of the head that says, “Show them what you've got!” That is a sign of a mature adult that you are. Make her realize that it is her lose not yours. Stand up and show everyone that “I’m back, let the games begin”

SOURCES: 

http://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/relationships 

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/loves-evolver/201012/breakup-etiquette-what-not-do

http://daily.swarthmore.edu/2011/03/04/breakup-etiquette/

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